My neighbour's husband said she is too strong. Na wa o!

I just came from my neighbour's house. She cooked eba and egusi for her husband, the man ate, belched, and told her "you are too strong, you no dey rest." My sister, since when is strength a sin for woman?

My mother used to say if a woman is weak, the children will suffer. These men want a woman who can carry market load, raise children, manage money, and still smile at them when they come home late. But when she stands tall, they call her stubborn.

God forbid. A woman's strength is not a problem. The problem is men who want slaves not wives. Who born you to tell a woman she is too strong?