Lagos vs Abuja for nightlife , which one is actually winning?

I just came back from a weekend in Abuja and I have to say something that might get me dragged. Abuja nightlife is overrated. The vibe is too controlled, everything closes by 2am, and the places that stay open are just... trying too hard to be Lagos.

Lagos is messy, chaotic, unpredictable. That's the point. You can be in Lekki at 4am eating grilled fish with strangers who become your best friends for the night. Abuja feels like everyone is still calculating if the fun is worth the traffic to Wuse.

No cap, I respect the order but give me the chaos any day. Which city actually knows how to have fun without checking the time?