If your partner doesn't post you, are you even dating?

I saw a tweet this morning and it got me thinking. This girl was complaining that her boyfriend of 8 months has never posted her on his Instagram or WhatsApp status. Not even a story. She said she confronted him and he told her he's a private person.

Private person my foot. If he wanted to, he would. These Lagos men will post their food, their new shoes, their football wins, but the girlfriend? Invisible. It's giving side chick energy, sorry.

I'm not saying you need to be on his page every day, but if after months there's zero evidence you exist, something is wrong. Shey you dey mad or you just dey waste her time?