Toke Makinwa's new podcast guest said what???

I just finished listening to Toke Makinwa's latest episode and ehn... the guest said something that got me thinking. She said 'if your man doesn't post you on his birthday, he is saving face for someone else.' Omo! The way my eyes opened wide.

I know people will say social media is not real life but shey, if the man is active online and posting everything except you, what exactly are we supposed to think? My friend had this exact issue last year. The guy posted his food, his car, his friends, even his barber's new shop. But for her birthday? Nothing. Radio silence. Three months later she found out he was still talking to his ex.

I don't know o. Is it that deep or are we overthinking things??