My wife sent me a WhatsApp message meant for her friend. I don't know what to do next.

My wife sent me a WhatsApp message meant for her friend. It wasn't anything scandalous, but it was about me. She wrote that I'm a good man but that I'm too predictable, that I don't surprise her anymore. She even said our people would call me a boring husband.

I saw it and didn't know what to do. I just put my phone down and went to sit outside. I was thinking about how I wake up every morning, pray, go to work, come back, help with our daughter, and sleep. I thought that was stability, something she wanted. Apparently, she wants a little chaos, a little spice.

I'm not angry, nwanne. I'm just confused. I want to talk to her about it, but I don't want her to know I saw the message. If I bring it up, she'll know I went through her phone, even though she sent it to me by mistake. The thing about life is that some truths come to you wrapped in small packages. This one came in a forwarded message.