I helped my cousin's son japa, now he's dragging my name through mud

Two years ago, I helped my cousin's son Tunde get his UK visa and a nursing job. I promised his mother I would mold him well. He arrived full of thanks, calling me 'Mummy Bose' every five minutes.

Three months later, he abandoned the job for some 'crypto hustle' he saw online. I warned him, but he said I was old-fashioned. Then the debts started. He borrowed from everyone, including my own colleagues, and when they came to me, I had to pay back some to protect my name.

The worst part? He used my name to collect money for a fake charity. People were calling my ward sister asking if I was running a scam. I almost lost my NHS job over that boy.

I had to cut him loose. His mother called me crying, but I told her the truth: I cannot carry a grown man on my back forever. Na so we see things in this life. God is faithful, but some people will never learn.