I Was Married for 8 Years and Had a Secret Girlfriend in Enugu for 3. My Wife Found Out Last Week.

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Cunning Fox from Aba

3 months ago

I am 41, a civil engineer, and I have been married for eight years. My wife, Ngozi, and I have two kids. But for the last three years, I had another life in Enugu. Her name was Amara, 29, a banker. We met at a friend's wedding in 2022. I was just there to support, but she was the one who approached me. I told her I was separated. It was a lie. But the attention, the way she looked at me, I could not resist. For three years, I lived a double life. I had a separate phone, a separate account, and I told Ngozi I had projects in Enugu that required me to stay overnight. The lies piled up. I missed my son's school play because I was with Amara. I forgot my daughter's birthday because I was booking a hotel for us. The worst part was the near-miss. One Sunday, Ngozi called while Amara was in the car. I put the call on speaker, and Ngozi asked where I was. I said I was in a meeting. Amara looked at me, and I saw the question in her eyes. I ended the call quickly and told her it was a colleague. She believed me. Last week, Ngozi found out. She saw a notification from Amara on my old phone, the one I thought I had hidden. She read everything. The messages, the photos, the hotel bookings. She did not shout. She just looked at me and said, "So this is what you have been doing while I am raising your children?" I could not even look at her. Amara found out too, through a mutual friend. She called me and said, "You used me. You made me a side chic and I did not even know." I have lost both of them. My wife has moved to her mother's place with the kids. Amara has blocked me everywhere. Omo, the pain of losing two women is nothing compared to the shame of knowing I did it to myself. I thought I was smart. I thought I could have everything. But I ended up with nothing. If you are thinking of cheating, just remember: the lies will always catch up with you. And when they do, you will be alone, with only your guilt for company.
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