I Found Out My Boyfriend Was Sending My Nudes To His Guys Group Chat

My ex. We dated for 8 months. He was the sweetest, always buying me small small things, sending me ₦20k for transport every week. I trusted him with everything. Including my body.

One night his phone was charging near me, screen lit up. Group chat called "The Council." I opened it. My nudes. Eleven men. They were rating me. One of them said "she fine but her yansh no be real." He replied "na padding she dey use." I froze. I didn't cry. I just sat there looking at my own body being discussed like meat at Mile 12.

I packed my things that same night. He begged. Said it was just guy talk. Just talk. I blocked him everywhere. Changed my number. Deleted every photo he ever had access to. But the damage was done. Those images are somewhere on eleven phones I can never reach. Sometimes I still wonder who else has seen me.

Ladies, no matter how much you love him, never send what you cannot recover. The love of your life can become the reason you cannot sleep at night.