The night my wife's pastor called me at 2am, I still can't sleep well since then

My wife's pastor called my phone at 2am. He said he was praying for our family and the Lord laid it on his heart to call. I said amen and dropped. But something told me to check her phone.

They had been talking for 8 months. Not prayers. Real conversations. The kind where she told him things she never told me. About our marriage. About my salary. About how she felt trapped. He was counselling her. Then he was something else.

I didn't confront her that night. I sat in the parlour till 5am. We have been married 19 years. Two children. I am the one who pays the school fees and the rent. And a man of God was calling my wife at 2am to pray for my family. The law says adultery is grounds. But what do you do when the other man wears a collar?