Abeg, make we settle this one: Is it wrong to check your spouse phone?

My brother, I dey tell you, this phone matter don scatter more marriages than infidelity itself. I was in court last week... no wait, I no go talk about court case. But see ehn, a friend of mine, his wife just pack her things because he asked to see her WhatsApp. She say it is invasion of privacy. The man say it is transparency. Ah! Which one is the law of the house now?

See, in the eyes of the court, once you marry, there is no absolute privacy. But in the eyes of the heart? That is where the trouble dey. If you feel the need to check, the trust don already crack. And if you find something, you no go like wetin you see. If you no find anything, the person go still vex say you no trust dem. Na lose-lose situation.

But make I ask una honest question. If your husband or wife tell you say "give me your phone make I check," and you begin to lock up or clear throat... ahn ahn, wetin you dey hide? Abi na only you get right to privacy for this marriage? So tell me, if your partner asks to see your phone right now, you go hand am over sharp sharp, or you go start to sweat?