I found out my boyfriend of 2 years was paying my roommate to spy on me

Two years. TWO YEARS. I was dating this guy in Lekki and he knew everything about me, down to when I was on my period. I thought it was love. I thought he was just attentive.

Last month my roommate left her phone on the couch and a message popped up. It was from him. "She's going to see her ex on Saturday, right? Confirm." The message before that was a transfer of ₦50,000. My own roommate. My own boyfriend. A whole spy operation inside my own apartment.

I didn't scream. I just packed my things and left. The worst part? I still miss him sometimes. Make it make sense.